Every family’s heard it:
“You don’t have to buy me anything this year!” Or, “I’ve got all the gifts I need, seriously.” And let’s not forget the old favorite, “Please don’t buy me a present.”
These are some of the more nauseating bluffs that seem to spike in popularity during the holiday gifting season. In our opinion, talk like that has no place in the home, and it’ll cost you a pretty penny in the Swear Jar if uttered in front of Nana.
So how can a well-meaning member of the family bring up the touchy subject of holiday gift-giving to their busy, budget-conscious kin? By suggesting a Secret Santa gift exchange, of course!
Now, the task of bringing up such a notion can be tricky, as pre-established holiday traditions are generally the toughest to alter. You’re going to need a game plan, and possibly a few months to wait for your family to come around. That’s why we’re bringing you a few tips to help get them onboard with a Secret Santa-style gift exchange as early as October. Here’s our advice:
Start Early
Plan a trial Halloween or Thanksgiving gift exchange. This smaller-scale swap will warm your family to the idea of a Secret Santa, and allow them to work out the logistics of the exchange under slightly less pressure than during the Christmas time-crunch.
Get Backup
Find an ally in the family who will attest to the genius of your idea. Two elves are better than one, and that extra support will help the other family members get excited about the exchange.
Embellish the Truth
Pretend that Grandpa secretly longs to do a Secret Santa exchange, but is too embarrassed to ask.
Highlight the Benefits
Win over the apathetic adolescent by explaining that buying for just one person will give them ample to loiter with their BFF’s at the local shopping mall. Create a supporting info-graphic chart to hang on the ceiling when they roll their eyes at the idea.
Use the Power of Suggestion
Ask how many people are in your giant extended family again. (You rest your case.)
Ask an Elf
Remember, Elfster makes Secret Santa easier and more fun than ever. The free online exchange organizer will help you invite participants, draw names, drop hints, ask secret questions, and follow your buddy’s wishlist without the holiday hassle.
Try Elfster’s Online Secret Santa Generator
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